Thinking of you.
It's true, they are still your babies, no matter what age they are.

First and foremost you MUST have a care for yourself, or else all your good work will be undone, and you will not have the strength to help them, even IF you wanted to. I think you have done the right thing to step back (although it must be so hard).
Your little ray of sunshine will be your lifebelt, I think!

Much love
Andrea