Haven't been into the thread for a couple of days. Belated birthday greetings Michelle - have a good birthday month, live long, die happy.

I had the full on hysterectomy and was still getting twinges a few months later, even without follow up radiation. I also had to have a hernia repair in 2006 and 2008 and still have some problem with scar tissue, so pain at three months is probably not a problem. However, mentioning it to your doctor is a good idea, even if just to put your mind at rest.

Anger can make you tense up physically and that accentuates any aches and pains that you might have. Deep breathing is a good way to dissipate that anger. Fantasising about what damage Mags could do to anyone stupid enough to ignore instructions about coming onto your property might also help!:0)