In my opinion,the only thing that is important[99.9 percent of the time] is the quality of the music of the performer.
I agree ,if anyone does anything in their private life or public life which is harmless to anyone else it is not of importance.
That is my opinion.
It would be much more positive if people showed their support for transsexuals,instead of making jokes at my expense,or publicly insulting me and telling me to sod off,or suggesting that they would not attend my gigs,because I raised this issue.,or stating that the question is inane
I am not intending to have a sex change[as has been suggested]but if I was it should not be treated as a crass joke.