I get the impression this all about some disagreement as to how far it's OK for people to talk about personal stuff and so forth. Or maybe about someone saying something disagreeable and not getting rapped on the knuckles when the OP thinks they should have been.

Here's a recipe for Drop Scones.

"...When the drop scones are cooked, invite friends or family to tuck in, while they are still fresh and warm, adding butter and/or jam or syrup." Which sounds suitably life enhancing for those needing a bit of life enhancement, which means all of us from time to time.