Reading through this thread I see that there have been many thoughtful responses who understand why I raised the issue. I hope that this discussion will have served as a reminder about how casual use of some terms can be very hurtful, even when there was no intention.Unfortunately, I think that there are also a few who missed the point.
Groucho's points are well taken. I will be in direct touch with him and hope that he comes back.
And like Groucho, I also do not understand the need to find an acceptable term with which to demonize those you disagree with.
Mike Regenstreif