Ah, Wilby,

As you will recall, my husband at 75 and I at 55 are another set of elderly parents of a 10-year-old. Thus I am in a good position to understand your plight. And yet, think of the opportunity to free yourself of years of extraneous acquisitions (as one inevitably does when relocating to a distant place) and start fresh!

I think you are in for a great adventure, and how wonderful that you asked Danny where he wanted to live instead of imposing a decision on him. Well done!

Claire