"Control, degrade, abuse and to create mind blowing fear" are indeed experienced by some who involve themselves in religion - but not all, perhaps not even by most. Religion is indeed created by humans, humans who wish to come together to share a common belief system. Sometimes it's good, and sometimes it's bad - but it is not necessarily intended to "control, degrade, abuse and to create mind blowing fear."

I suppose it depends on one's view of humanity, but I cannot find it within myself to believe that most humans are willing to submit themselves to those who seek to "control, degrade, abuse and to create mind blowing fear."

For myself, I find the practice of religion be be enjoyable, mentally stimulating and challenging, and joyful. I acknowledge that others have had vastly different experiences with religion.

-Joe-