You're quite correct, Dave. I don't know. ;-) Nor does anyone else. We just have our opinions. In this case, I think the only two opinions that hold much relevance to the matter are mine and hers. That doesn't prove that we know either...no proof is available on this matter or ever will be.

A lot of stuff in life is like that. You can't prove it, you can't disprove it, you can only experience it and remember the experience. I find that other people's reactions to a story of one's own experience are generally predetermined by whatever they already want to believe in or don't want to believe in. Most people have their minds all made up about things. Just ask them. ;-)