This is a tough time for you Kim. I'm sorry about your father. I too, lost my dad, and I didn't have a song in my heart for a long time. All you can really do is "suck it up" and know that he wouldn't want you to be upset. A long walk today would help ... and try not to have any caffine, icecream gums up the vocal chords (but I'm sure you know all that stuff). Listen to some really upbeat music ... nothing reflective (sorry musicman!!) and I think you'll do ok! I'm pullin for ya! LL