Now I'm feeling bad for saying not to listen to refective music. I highly recommend Musicman's CD "Farewell" it is THE most beautiful selection of music that soothes and heals the wounded heart. Go to Musicman's personal page to find out how to order it. Listening to it has helped me a great deal ... and that's why I'm in love with music ...for what it does to the spirit. So go out there and play Kim like you've never played before ...you never know who's heart you may be helping to heal. LL