Kim,

I don't know you (I'm new here) but I will be praying for you in this time of your loss (I am a minister as well as a singer/player) and I have some advice:

Think very hard about what it is you value in a performance. Then realize that there will be people out there who value those same things, which is why they came out. Give to them what they came for, and let God give you what you come to Him for... healing and peace in your troubled and sad heart. I know that peace and if I can help share it with you, I would be glad to.

If you and your dad both have faith in God, you will meet again beyond the veil. Let me know of whatever I can do to be a friend in this rough time.

In His Love, Steve GospelPicker