Well last week was bad for me but not as bad as for other people. The question we are left with now is how much do we tell the boys. The eldest had a good cry last night & keeps saying he wants to see his dad, now the second one is copying him. The police seem to think it is up to the mother to decide, as the body was not damaged in any way. So far the mother has just told them he was ill & died, I think this is enough at the moment for them to take in. Anyone had this problem & if so how did you overcome it? any suggestions would be gratefully received thank you.