Personly I'd prefer it to be a 'surprise, (thus I suppose 'secret') rather than 'Public' - If others want to do it 'public' I have no objection to that - but I would prefer NOT to have my details published on the net!!!! - so I would want the 'secret' I suppose - the address sent by email will then be 'private' and cause fewer hassles these days. There are people out there who fall into the 'not nice' category sadly....

Also if someone wants to send a particular person a card, rather than just 'a few random names' then perhaps they could ask fo that one if they have joined up?

I don't want to start a Mudcat "I sent more cards than you did" game ... :-)