mg, we cross-posted. Yes, thanks, those ARE good and I'm already doing most of it.

I interview candidates for ordination as part of a group that asks a lot of interesting questions. Bishops don't appoint anyone to a 6-year term on that group, who doesn't have a sensible approach, and a clear mind with eyes and heart equally wide open.... A lot of the Q's might be open-ended, but they have a way of bringing out certain key facts and truths.

And I am doing all the agreements in writing, with email drafts on hand to cover key items as they come up. I'll be adding the "at own risk" part to all of it-- have some already but I'll beef it up.

~Susan