>>>////Why not just live & let my wife's daughter Evie live? Can't see what harm she [or he] is actually doing anybody.///

Don't blame your shortcomings as a stepfather on me.<<<

Sorry, Josep; don't quite follow you here. In what way do you perceive me as 'blaming' you for anything? & how is it any sort of 'shortcoming' to indulge without interference a young person's natural wish to follow the tastes appropriate to her age and sex & peer-group?

Indeed, a remark on your part, as I see it, both confused and impertinent. Kindly attend to your manners when addressing me, if you would be so obliging, my good fellow.

~M~