MtheGM, finding that sort of thing in your inbox must be like finding a turd posted through your door. As you say, it does speak volumes.
I can find swearing, when done with verve and some creativity, a life-enhancing thing. When done as a threadbare cover for poor vocabulary and ignorance, though, it's wholly depressing. That said, a good 'fucking' has got to be preferable to a bland 'like'. In conversation, I mean...