Oops! I meant to type 'naive,' not 'native,' when I posted above.

Still trying to think of a snappy comeback. Can't seem to do it right now.

Have you read the Bridget Jones books? I was intrigued when I realized that Bridget and her friends, posh speakers all, resort to underclass lingo (such as 'yer') when they sense a friend needs comforting. Shows they are an in-group, I guess.