Well I know single parent women who have two jobs.

Every waking hour is spent scraping enough money together to try and create opportunities for their kids that they didn't have.

We middle classers with good educations etc can sit back and say "well actually the research says that a good relationship with mum is so much better etc etc"

But thats the luxury of not being IN that particular hole.

This is just information - not an opinion.

You judge them any way you like.