Rich (bodhrani, etc), I think it's called "subtlety," and "musicality." Always a treat no matter what your instrument. Can't tell you the number of singarounds I've been to in which, when you start a song and it's "Your" song, other people just jump right in and sing the whole damned thing with you. I love having people work subtle harmonies around what I'm doing, but sometimes, dammit, it ain't a chorale work!

But again, I think it's mostly a matter of ignorance == and sometimes sheer arrogance. But mostly people just don't know any better.

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