The Mudcat Café TM
Thread #134885 Message #3072476
Posted By: wysiwyg
11-Jan-11 - 06:30 PM
Thread Name: BS: You Know What Pisses Me Off?
Subject: RE: BS: You Know What Pisses Me Off?
I learned that expectations are only invitations to disappointment.
I agree. One's own manners need not depend on someone else's response (or one's perceptions of same).
A paraphrase of an item I got in email, that I try to remind myself of daily: "Always be as kind as you can, for everyone you meet is fighting a great battle." The battle is seldom as visible as the inner reality of the person feeling it.
~Susan