The nearest I can get to praying is to care. I have read and re-read this thread often and felt so helpless, I haven't even had words to offer. Somehow there is a love between Mudcatters who often haven't even met that transcends everything logical. I read your story full of tears of frustration that in this day and age the great American system is so much worse than ours in caring for its people.
Please let me add my hopes and prayers, such as they are, for your daughter, yourself and also her obviously devoted boyfriend.

Andy