We were married in Virginia in 2003. I moved to UK 3 months after we married. No chance of us breaking up. We are soul mates and best friends.

So the US will have to recognise our marriage. Thing is, he may not have to work. I think I can earn enough that we can live quite comfortably without dipping into his pension. That can be saved for trips to UK.

The hard part would be, being separated from husband for several months while he sells off and packs up stuff in UK, while I am living in US. I think if I get a job soon, that I could live with my Aunt who is in same neighbourhood as house we want.

Then I only need to dip into savings for flights to US for interviews and move and to buy a cheap runner car.