I may have read it wrong, but is Hardiman's first name Greg?

Ya know, my very first, ahem, "boyfriend"'s name was Gregg Hardiman, and Praise, am I correct in my recollection that you live in western NY state?

If so, you just might be married to my first boyfriend! (I think we "dated" for all of three weeks in seventh grade)

I wonder if he knows his ex is a card-carrying pagan now!

Many blessings on you both...