One closing note, perhaps a bit on the negative side: I'm very dismayed that anyone would feel "insulted" by a troubled fellow-Mudcatter's request for prayers. If you are truly able to accept that other folks may hold beliefs different from your own, you should be able to accept such a message in the spirit in which it is offered. In other words: Get over yourself! Just as you expect others to realize that our community includes significant numbers of unbelievers, you need to recognize that there are believers among us as well.

Yes, I accept that others have beliefs at variance with mine and I don't see mine as any better or worse than theirs. We all have our own way of getting through the rocky roads of life. Fine. If I come on here and prattle on about my atheism I fully expect to have to defend my notions against vigorous challenges from believers. In just the same way I expect believers who put themselves about to have to face challenges from me. We've had thousands of years of religion being protected from criticism, and I think that is unhealthy and plain wrong. If you come on to a mixed forum of this nature and publicly ask for prayers you should not be too surprised if someone comes back at you and says, "I don't do your bloody prayers, it's a shame you had to put it that way because I really do wish you well." It's not me who has to get over myself, it's the thoughtless and smug people of faith who put up these invidious messages when, as I said, it is an absolute piece of cake to word your message in a far friendlier and more inclusive way. I mean, why wouldn't you? Good question, that, huh? Now you've pushed me into defending what I said and I must say it's all a bit over the top. I regard messages of the kind I'm objecting to as no more than minor irritations from people who really should know better. Believe me, I lose no sleep and there is very little for me to "get over." So be less rude, eh?