I mostly sing at fund-raising events with an open mike format, and they are plentiful here with several going on each weekend. I have little interest in commercial venues, and I sing to an older audience who,like myself, loves the older country and folk. Over the years I have seen many performers who suck develop into wonderful entertainers as they gain confidence. Encouragement is vital for first timers and please look back to the day that your knees would knock standing before a group of people. If you give some polite applause and encouragement you may be amazed at what may develop before your eyes.