Little Hawk I was interested to read the forth paragraph down, one thing they bequeathed to me, nasty subtle predudices .........this was how my parents were only the other way around as C of E Christians. They have always had such a fixed opinionated attitude about everything regarding other forms of religion, orientation, morality etc. over the years especially in my teens it drove me to distraction. They have always been good caring parents despite all of that but now that they are elderly I would rather let whatever they say ride over rather than confront it or make an issue of it but it still has me ticking the (non-religious) box on a any form.