I read somewhere of those lasses who've shaved their hair off completely, or almost all off, before treatment even starts, to avoid their hair falling out in clumps.
They felt much better doing it that way, more in control....and they discovered bandanas, gypsy scarves twirled around their heads, great eye make up..sparkling eyeshadows, sexy kohl, big beautiful earrings that dangle and dingle..
Others were simply happy to be bald for as long as it took..and learned to love the fluffiness of their new hair coming through...
It'll soon pass, Dan..I know that's so easy for others to say, but it will...and we're all right here with you both...(((XXX)))