Back at the original subject.

I have found that when my computer tells me I have updates waiting to be installed, that the best way is to go to custom install.

I then make a note of what they are attempting to install.

Next, I let the install attempt take place.

Any that have failed, I note for the next time I fire up, do the custom install and uncheck them.

Microsoft then asks me whether or not to include them in future install attempts and I tell them not to bother with those specific items.

This system avoids a lot of irritation and hangups.