Mick I just want to add to the pile of care and good wishes expressed in all of the posts above and hope that in some small way it makes up for the loss of your father. I often end up in tears after browsing and reading this post. The sheer humanity and connectedness of it all simply overwhelms me at times. Please do whatever you have to do at this time and even though it wont change what has happened, hopefully some of the love above will help you and your family move through.

Cheers,

Andrez

PS: As the wise man once said: "May the 4th be with you" :-)