I understand "A man will give love, and expect sex, and a woman will give sex, and expects to be loved". I don't think it's quite right. Quite frequently women will not "give sex" and it's not the whole point anyway as (I would have thought) most men when wanting sex will want the woman not merely to "give sex" but to want sex too.

Further, many men will not "give love" but rather will want sex and if finding that reciprocated will progress to fonder emotion - and indeed that may be so of many women too. Indeed I'm not sure that one "gives love": one loves or not, and not by choice.

As for the rest of what FFS is on about, I have absolutely no idea what it means. FFS, would you care to clarify.


But to return to the OP - if you aren't getting what you want, weigh the cost of jumping ship. If it's going to cost you the house, stay put and suck it up if that is your calculation.