It is an interesting thread not because of me starting it .. it is about exactly that, what would you do ... I mean we tell the kids how to behave, we know they are going to do stuff and I don't care what background they are raised in. A 15 year old thinks she is in love and so does the guy .. or the guy just wants to get laid (most don't know the difference) But if it were your kid or mine, what would you want the neighbor to do? It really is a tough call right? Again I am being selfish because I have a lot of my own issues on my plate with the cancer and mom and everything else .. but what is the right thing and the thing we really should do? I don't know the answer to this question. I don't know what I would want if it were my kid at that age if I really wanted a neighbor to tell me ... crazy isn't it