Well said, Amos! ;-) I think you are absolutely right. We're playing in the 3-D matrix here, and we try to pick the roles that we like better, that's all. The great secret is exactly as you say it is.

Notice how common it is for people to judge other people "evil", according to the roles they have chosen to play? That's part of the delusion too. It's as if we are all dreaming, yet fully believing that the dream is 100% real. (and most people DO believe a dream while it's happening)