Flattop, whatever I am communication wise or otherwise, the first and only time a women did that with me was within 1 week of me trying to use the lack of a girlfriend as part of my proof that life was not giving me a break.

If one said that I was eleigble for a girlfriend at the age of 16 and I'm now 40, whatever I am, that gives roughly 8760 days for any female to be attracted to me and say so. 5/8760 is pretty slim odds....

PS, I was 36 at the time.

Jon