George why would you stop posting just because you are assuming Standing Bear categorized something you said as "naive sounding and sappy". First of all that may not have been what he really meant and secondly that does not mean that is what anyone else feels who is reading your postings.
It makes no sense for you to be concerned that everything you say may cause genuine distress to someone.
Well for that matter, you might as well never say anything ever.

Little Neo