Do you feel that I am lecturing you??? Why? I'm simply explaining and articulating my own thoughts on the subject. I am no more lecturing you than you are lecturing me...or whoever else you might be talking to here. What's sauce for the goose is sauce for the gander.

I think we are both quite aware of the dynamics of the situation, and I wasn't suggesting that you are not. I was voicing my thoughts. That's what we all do here.