Llanfair - we are the other way around - I go out to work & Mark does the rest. Its a great way to do things. When we both worked then 'the rest' rarely got done & that usually led to arguments & guilt-ing. We definitely both get more daisies this way! The other important thing is to look around the metaphorical meadow & choose which daisies you really want - ie taking time to think about what you actually want in isolation from what is conventional or fashionable. If you fancy an orchid for a change then why not..... (or a cowslip or whatever) [Help - I'm getting all muddled up in metaphors now & I'm not even sure myself what I'm on about] BTW - Llanstock was a lovely field of daisies!Kris