Some times it helps just to have confirmed that other people are in the same or a similar boat, hence the invitation to commiserate. There are not many things in the world about which I am not certain, but I know I am not the only fried brain out there right now. I am also well aware that my life is much easier than that of many people.

Know what you mean about those "shoulds" Dorothy. I try to practice what I preach, and if I did not I would be a bit of a basket case about now. I'm not. Just venting.