It does all come down to vulnerability... The older we get the more we dwell on it... We want to have complete control and not be a burden on others... Normal... Goes with that "life" stuff that you are talking about, Janie... Wish it weren't so but most of the folks here in Mudville are in similar positions... Maybe not you exact "un-finshed things" but those that may very well never get finished... Like I said, "Normal"... Part of the deal...

Dr. Bobert