"" if the ship was already listing at an extreme angle she might have capsized in deep water"".

Do we know that to be the case when the desision was made by someone to ground? While we can see the result, it seems just as likely that the trip near the coast could have just as easily had different results.

It seems very odd that a captain, who seems to have had time to assess and react, would not consult shore authorities/ship experts who may have presented other options. If he sought advice from his company, I suspect those people may be very nervious about the inquiry.

From passenger reports, the time frame and communication with passengers would lead one to believe that this was not a well-thought out (and coordinated) response by the captain or crew.

While, with ample information, it is wise not to demonize the captain. But, it is just as logical to credit him with heroic actions either, considering what is in the public domain at this point..