I skimmed through this thread a little, so apologies if I am repeating anyone.I just wanted to say that you might be able to link it with research that has shown that writing down your problems and feelings is good for reducing stress. I can maybe try to find some references if you want. PM or Email me, as I might miss a request if its in the thread. My E-mail is kiernan@x-stream.co.uk
If you are not a diary type person, and cant bring yourself to talk with "real life" closer friends, you can often find it easier to share things with net friends.
Personally, I have made some very good friends on the net - not really here yet, as I havent been around much, but on other sites. And the friends that I have made have helped me through some really tough times, just by being there for me to e-mail when things got tough.
Bagpuss