Hope I'm not stepping over boundaries, but could some of the depression be more related to the adult children in the house and the surgery just being the straw that strained the camel's back, so to speak?

I'm with ChanteyLass...I hope you are In the Pink - On the Road to Wellville, as many Mudcatters helped me to be, in no time. Regardless, we are here and won't be going anywhere. I'd say we'd hold yer hand, but that might hurt a bit and get in the way!:-)

kat