Sorry about all the typos - I reread my post and was, like, how did that happen lol. It's too early in the morning I guess! Anyway - just one other thing - I really like the post from the wife who encourages other non-playing wives to take up an instrument and join her husband so that both have something in common. Every husband and wife should do things together that they both enjoy. Unfortunately for me I am so void of musical talent that I don't think it would be possible, but we did take up biking and kayaking together and we also enjoy long rides in the country. Fortunately my husband loves nature like I do. A good book for any couple to read is: "Strike the Original Match" by Charles Swindoll. Even musicians want good/better marriages!