I'm torn...

Yeah, folks need to know that friends are in the last chapter so they can make arrangements to visit... Unfortunately, folks don't do all that visiting... I know... I buried my late wife, Judy, and believe me, folks don't make those visits...

But they still need to know so they can, at least, make the decision to put off that visit...

Details of one's demise, however, are well meaning but not helpful...

It's tough...

B~