Here's another way perspective, joez...

You meet the woman of your dreams... She is drop-dead gorgeous, has that little laugh where she flicks her long blond hair just the way that turns you on... Best of all, she is into you... She listens to you, laughs at your lousy jokes and loves you like you have never been loved... Got it???

So a year into your relationship you wake up one day thinkin', "I gotta marry this woman" so you buy the ring, take her to the most romantic place you know, get down on one knee and ask her to marry you...

She looks down at you and says, "Joseph, you know I love you with all my heart and would love to be your wife but there is something that you need to know..............

Get it now???

B~