Are you saying they are not letting you play your own music and insisting on theirs? Not good. For some chores, like vacuuming, they should be allowed to have headphones and play whatever they want. You should be able to either play your own music quietly when they can not use headphones, or, if it really bothers them, use headphones yourself, but neither party should havet o listen to music it hates. If I were forced to have to listen to jazz for several hours I would go berserk..and perhaps I could drive people berserk playing bagpipe music for four hours...mg