Years ago I had a poster which hung in my bathroom. It featured Ziggy, the cartoon character. He was pictured seated on the toilet, staring at an empty toilet paper holder. The caption was, "Did you ever have one of those lives?

At that time in my life lots of not very nice things were happening to me. It wasn't until years later that I was able to turn things around so that I was happening to life instead of life happening to me.

I wish I could tell you what it was that made the difference. I can only extend the wish to you that you can find it. Soon, I hope.

Best wishes,

Allan