This has not been a good year for me,as many here will be able to testify and that's kind of the point I want to make......I've been through tough times before and I've done it pretty much alone, not because people wouldn't help but because they didn't know. I saw having a bad time as my own fault, my weakness, my pathetic inability to cope,no matter how awful the situation I was to blame and desperately ashamed.
If I never learn another thing in my life, I am blessed that I learnt that it is okay not to be perfect, okay not to be able to cope and okay to ask for help.And now I do, and have done so on here more than once, and back has come love, support and warmth in measures inconceivable to me before now.
Anything I can do for you Khandu, let me know.....I have a lot of blessings to repay.And Jon.....what Leej and Spaw said, doubled!