Hello, JoI want to welcome you here. I have been here a relatively short time, and it took me a little while to get acclimated here. I still get a bit off-balance from time to time. Sometimes it is difficult to interpret what some one has written. A few times I was mildly insulted, but as I became more familiar with some of the ones here, I realized that they were not being insulting, they were just being themelves. (Watch out for Spaw, though, he will jack with your head.) :)
Sounds like good advice is coming your way. I agree with all that has been said.
Kendall, your cousin is an enigma. How can he do that! I am sure you saw Steve Martin dancing out of time to the music on "The Jerk". That either takes a lot of talent or a complete lack of musicality to do that. I was very impressed. What you said about your cousin reminded me of that.
khandu