Speaking as a newcomer to a forum such a this,I can say definitely that healing thoughts and prayers do help. Honestly, I wouldn't know one of these people if I fell over them in the street. However, that didn't stop them from sending compassionate and caring thoughts to me, a stranger, when I needed it most. When you're emotionally down, you need that contact with others to lift you up again. That's what makes us human- our ability to care about one another. It also keeps us from going crazy. Next time you've experienced one of life's nastier blows, let us know, we'll send some healing your way. Then you'll know for sure. Peace. James