I have been thinking a lot lately about the people who come to the Mudcat. I have especially been mulling over the various incidents in which a GUEST or member has indicated some doubt as to whether they will remain among us here. Virtually every time this happens there ensues a tremendous outpouring of pleading and cajoling to persuade that person to stay.

What does this say about us? Why do we do this? We have lots of members. Why does it matter so much whether we lose one from time to time?

I know what my own answers/feelings are. I would be curious to know your thoughts.